1 John 4:7-8 (MSG) "My beloved friends let us continue to love each other since love comes from God. Everyone who loves is born of God and experiences a relationship with God. The person who refuses to love doesn't know the first thing about God, because God is love—so you can't know him if you don't love."
Love is so much more than a pasted-on smile and a cheesy Christian greeting offered in passing. Love is so much more than feeding the hungry at Thanksgiving or clinking a few coins in the Salvation Army bucket at Christmas. Love is so much more than words without feeling tacked onto the end of goodbye.
To love is to see inside someone and affirm the essence of who they are. To love is to serve. To love is to embrace. To love is to spend time in a dynamic life exchange. To love is to give. To love is to represent Jesus and His Father to those around us.
To love is to recognize that we are all different and because of that difference, we all have a "unique-to-you" expression of demonstrating love. For some, that expression looks like championing the cause of the pro-life movement. For others, it may look like rescuing women and children from the horrors of human trafficking. Still for others it may look like staying at home to mother their young or joining the police force to bring safety and justice for all. A teacher educating young hearts. An attorney defending her client judicially. An actress illuminating the stage and warming hearts with her gift of entertainment. All unique expressions of love demonstrated to the world around us. All re-presenting an attribute of a Father in Heaven and His only begotten Son who loves you.
Father God is so multifaceted in who He is, it's no wonder we all get to be different in our expression of who we are. And yet at the core, the common uniting factor is love. God is kind. God is good. God is just. God is nurturing. God is a teacher. God is joyful. And yet at the center remains His essence, God is love. How we give love to the world should mirror who God is because as He is, so are we in this world (1 John 4:17).
Because we can't give away what we don't have, our loving others comes out of our personal experience of God loving us. To love others is to experience God. Love looks like compassion when we care for the hurting. Love looks like affirmation when we encourage the discouraged. Love looks like provision when we give to those in need. Love looks like honor when we embrace the treasure of another human being. Love looks like peace when we offer a listening ear or a comforting hand to a frantic soul.
What about you? Are you loving well? Can you articulate what your love looks like? How do you demonstrate your unique-to-you expression of love to those around you? How are you representing God to those in your sphere of influence
Together with her husband, Doug, Felicia has served in church leadership and ministerial roles for almost 20 years. Presently, they oversee Wise Counsel Ministries bringing transformation to both people and organizations and serve as elders on the board for The River Fellowship. Felicia’s greatest joy is loving people. With a heart to equip and empower others, her heart is to take people’s hand, place it in Father’s hand and leave it there. Felicia’s passion is to move people beyond random encounters with God as Father into sonship where they learn to walk as Jesus walked through the experience of Father loving them. Wife to one, Mom to four, Editor, Speaker, Life Coach, Felicia considers herself a jack of many trades, master of friend.